these self-claimed studies frustrate me.

Unemployment really made me doom scroll a lot on my social media. I like Instagram lately, I like that I can choose what I want to see through the explore page lol.

However, lately there are many contents regarding studies about "being in your early 20s", "living your adulthood", "emotional unintelligent vs emotional intelligent" and what not. I'm going insane watching all these different opinions been talked about without any real sources or references? Where do you get these information from? Tell me, how do you study these so called in depth of psychologies? Do you gave out surveys or was it just based on your observation through the internet? GIVE ME CITES!! 

I mean, not just in terms of psychological contents, this also includes those type of skincare, diet tips, and healthcare contents but mine is mainly on those psychological parts of internet lol. 

Of course, to take these tips and tricks seriously are all up to us la kan? But it's just not nice sharing information publicly without any sources. Dapat dekat young kids, teenagers who crave for validation and has nobody to teach them pastu dapat pulak these so called 'studies' yang entah betul entah tidak kesahihan nya, tak ke naya? Kids will grow up thinking what they did is correct because the internet tells them it's right and it'll confuse them even more. 

Honestly if we think it deeply (apart from the generally haram and halal), we can't really judge what's right or wrong on people's behavior because everyone never experience the same thing which technically, we will never truly put ourselves in other people's shoes. The perspective of things, the reasons of every actions are literally influenced by our environments, surroundings, backgrounds, and beliefs. 

Demographic influences hypothesis. 

I think, as long as we as humans never are in the same circumstances, we will always have different opinions and understandings on things. Therefore, to reach an understanding and decision, we need to be under the same roof. That's why people are easy to connect when they have gone through similar things. 

My point is, if you wanna share your 'study' please lay it with evidence or statistic, refer to real experiment, cite it, put it as your source of info because at least people can look up into those sources and understand your point of view. Or else, it's just your opinion and not a study. Nothing's wrong in sharing your opinion, we'll understand and respect your point of view cuz it's based on your observation of living and sometimes it helps people to see things from different perspective. (unless if you are a zionist, none of your opinions matter).

So many self claimed studies about how you should live your life. Let's just shut up.